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“Giving up hope is one of the healthiest, most life-affirming things you could do for yourself,” writes Dr Laura Schlessinger in .
“If, of course, you accept [your controlling parents] and don’t pout.” Giving up hope may sound negative and depressing — but after you read my explanation and tips for coping with parents who try to control you, you may feel differently.
We grow up seeking approval, affirmation, and even love from our parents.
Andy referred to this when he mentioned his parents’ constant criticisms of him and praise of other kids.
This is partly why some parents are so controlling; they see us as little babies, toddlers, 10 year olds, 14 year olds.I wrote a bit about that workshop in How to Love Yourself When You Don’t Feel Good Enough.Since all families are different there is no “one size fits all” answer when you’re looking for ways to deal with controlling parents. Your parents are unique, you are unique, and your patterns of relating to each other are unique.“You may even feel justified in being angry with them, and you may be right.However, what you may not realize is that holding on to your anger or carrying a grudge against someone never serves you. It weighs you down and holds you back from moving forward. It’s like your parents are a horse racing around a racetrack. By doing the work it takes to learn how to deal with controlling parents.