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Regnerus also argues that the easy availability of sex makes men less motivated in their professional lives, because they don’t need to become successful, i.e., marriageable, to woo women to their beds.While this may sound dubious, there is an established precedent for this theory in the field.If that doesn’t work out, there’s always porn, which requires next to no effort to find.These factors, Regnerus argues, “have created a massive slowdown in the development of committed relationships, especially marriage.”Marriage rates have indeed plummeted among young adults, to the point that a demographer cited by Regnerus estimates that one-third of people currently in their early 20s will never get married.

Regnerus doesn’t talk much about LGBT relationships, except to say that these market dynamics might make women more likely to “experiment with same-sex relationships,” to circumvent the problem of noncommittal men.

They do not want to be responsible for ‘raising’ men.

But it is realistic.”Even under a theory that believes women, through sexual gatekeeping, control how relationships unfold, it’s quite something to imply that men do not have responsibility for contributing to norms around how romantic partners should treat each other.

His idea, as you might suspect from the title, is that sex is not as costly to access as it once was—in terms of time, effort, and risk.

Contraception makes sex less risky; online dating platforms make it more accessible.

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